Cordiality and mercy are the divine gift that The Almighty Allah grants for most newly married couples. It is our nature, our hearts and the way we think which determine whether we keep and grow our divine gift to live happily under its shade, or take our gift to slow death.
And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. (30,21)